your digital bestie
Whatever's going on, you don't have to figure it out alone.
We've got your back, bestie.
YBFF (Your Best Friend) is your digital best friend—a safe, discreet, nonjudgmental place for the questions you really want to ask, the things you're not sure who to tell, and trusted resources for figuring out what to do next.
Inspired by friendship bracelets, passed notes, summer-camp bonds, and the advice columns of yore.
More to come.
Here's what we're bringing you first:
- →Relationships — the one you're in and aren't sure how to get out of. Pressure, control, and what leaving can actually look like.
- →Guides — straight answers on feelings, friendships, your body, school, and safety.
- →Dear YBFF — the advice column, brought back. Real questions, answered honestly.
- →Ask anything — send a question anonymously. No name, no email, no judgment.
“Dime con quién andas y te diré quién eres”
significa que las personas con las que eliges relacionarte reflejan tus propios valores, intereses y formas de actuar. Es una advertencia tradicional sobre cómo las amistades influyen en tu reputación y en tu comportamiento diario.
In English Birds of a feather flock together — who you keep close shapes who you become. We’ve got you, bestie.
Need help right now?
Please don't wait for us. These are free, confidential, and staffed 24/7 by people trained for exactly this. You will not be in trouble for reaching out.
If it's about someone you're with
- love is respect — dating abuse, pressure, controlText LOVEIS to 22522
- National Domestic Violence HotlineText START to 88788
- RAINN — sexual assault & coercion1-800-656-4673
If it's something else
- 988 Suicide & Crisis LifelineCall or text 988
- Crisis Text LineText HOME to 741741
- Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline1-800-422-4453
- The Trevor Project — LGBTQ+ youthText START to 678-678
If someone checks your phone or laptop: open this site in a private or incognito window, and clear your history after. The Quick exit button gets you off this page fast — but it does not erase where you've been, so clear your history too. Texting a hotline is usually quieter than calling.